Monday, December 4, 2017

Sexsomnia: My boyfriend raped his ex 'in his sleep'

Sexsomnia: My boyfriend raped his ex 'in his sleep'
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Everyone knows about sleeping people who get up and go for a walk, but far less is heard about the rare cases of men who try to have sex in their sleep. One found himself in serious trouble, reports the BBC's Sally Abrahams.
When Sarah first met Tom at a friend's house, they immediately clicked. He was warm, chatty, with a gentle sense of humour that reminded her of her brother.
In the following weeks, they went on dates and spent more time together. Sometimes Sarah would stay over at Tom's flat. At other times, he would come to hers.
As they were getting to know each other, something happened while they were in bed one night that made Sarah feel uncomfortable. Tom began fondling her breasts, then quickly began thrusting at her groin in a crude, unsensual kind of way. It was early days in their relationship, and she decided not to say anything about it.
"I guess I thought he was just being a bit frisky, so I just brushed it off. Which is probably what always happened in the past."
Gradually, they became closer, and settled into a routine of meals out, cinema and long walks together. They enjoyed each other's company and Sarah put aside her worries of that strange nocturnal episode.
But one night, after they'd been to a party, where they'd both been drinking, Sarah woke from a deep sleep to find Tom trying to penetrate her through her underwear.
It was painful and disturbing. The next day, she told him she'd had enough and wanted to end the relationship. But Tom's response surprised her. "He didn't know what I was talking about so he was quite defensive. And I was really angry having been woken up and him just completely oblivious to the whole thing," Sarah says.
Tom insisted he had no recollection at all of trying to have sex with Sarah that night. He was devastated by her account of what he had done and by the thought that he had hurt her.
Sarah didn't know what to think. Tom's crude attempt to have sex that night had been totally different from how he normally was; gentle, intimate, sensual. But she remembered something Tom had told her when they first met, before the relationship had even begun - that years ago, he had been convicted of raping his ex-partner, Karen, and sentenced to seven years in jail.

It had happened while he was on a visit to spend time with their young child. He and Karen had had a drink, watched a film and then shared a bed. Tom had fallen asleep almost immediately, but had been woken about 45 minutes later by Karen screaming and shouting at him: "What are you doing? This isn't you. This is not like you. This isn't you." Confused, disorientated and shocked by her screaming, he grabbed his stuff and left her flat.
Between the point of drifting off to sleep and being shouted at by Karen, Tom said he had no recollection of anything at all.
Sarah wondered if Tom's behaviour then - apparently so out of character - might be related to his more recent attempt to force himself on her.
She thought back to other strange things that Tom did in his sleep - like the first time he stayed at hers. "He got up in the night, put his trousers on, told me he was leaving. No top on. Didn't remember anything about it in the morning," she says.
So Sarah encouraged Tom to see his GP. He was referred to the sleep clinic at Guy's and St Thomas' hospitals in London, where he spent a night with electrodes attached to his scalp to monitor his brain activity.
Man having an EEG
What the doctors discovered was to have a dramatic impact on Tom's life.
"His brainwaves in his sleep study show something very unusual," says Dr Guy Leschziner, the consultant neurologist in charge of Tom's case.
"He appears to be awake and deeply asleep at the same time. During brief periods we can see the large slow brainwaves of deep sleep, with superimposed fast rhythms, suggesting simultaneously that he is awake."
The findings of the sleep study together with Sarah's description of Tom's behaviour and his sleepwalking led Leschziner to diagnose Tom with a rare type of sleep disorder called sexsomnia.
Sexsomnia is related to sleepwalking, and to night terrors - when people exhibit nightmare-like symptoms even though they are not in the dreaming phase of sleep. All are forms of a sleep disorder known as "parasomnia", and usually occur in the first part of the night, during very deep sleep, says Prof Meir Kryger of Yale University.
"The person who sleepwalks will appear to be awake but they're really not. And we know this from monitoring their brainwaves," he says.
It's the parts of the brain controlling vision, movement and emotion that appear to be awake, says Guy Leschziner. "While areas of the brain involved in memory, decision-making and rational thinking appear to remain in deep sleep. So people in this state can talk, walk, eat, cook, drive or even have sex, without clear consciousness or memory."
So could Tom's sexsomnia diagnosis have a bearing on his rape conviction?
"Without having electrodes attached during the night of the rape, it's impossible to be sure whether it was as a result of Tom's sleep disorder," says Leschziner. "Tom was found guilty by a jury."
But in the last few years, there have been several court cases involving sleep disorders, including sexsomnia, which have resulted in acquittals. The law must decide whether someone has criminal intent or is acting as an automaton, without conscious awareness.
"There is a famous case in Toronto where a gentleman got into a car, drove a long distance and then murdered his mother-in-law and father-in-law. And the jury decided that he was sleepwalking and he wasn't guilty," says Meir Kryger of Yale University.
"There was another similar case in Arizona a few years ago, where someone murdered his wife. And in that case he alleged that he was sleepwalking, but he was convicted."
Because defendants are never having their brainwaves measured when they carry out the attack it can be hard to know for sure whether they were conscious or not, says Mike Kopelman, emeritus professor of neuropsychiatry at King's College London.
"If you find evidence of conscious deliberation, motivation or of recall, that rules out it having been an automatism," he says.
EEG showing patient in REM sleep
But if not, then the accused could be innocent.
"One has to piece together what you know about the assailant's past history of a sleep disorder and what the circumstances were and also the findings on sleep recordings, which don't prove there was a parasomnia at the time but provide corroborative evidence."
Sarah says Tom's sexsomnia diagnosis has had a profound effect on him, because he'd always believed he was falsely accused of rape.
"To come to terms with the fact that he had actually done something that he had no recollection of whatsoever and dealing with that sort of guilt... I mean, he didn't even know that he did anything odd at night. He just doesn't remember in the morning," she says.
There isn't a miracle cure for this kind of extreme sleep disorder, but there are ways to help prevent it happening. They include wearing clothing in bed, to reduce skin-to-skin contact. Stress, alcohol and lack of sleep can also be triggers, as well as sleeping in an unfamiliar environment.
By avoiding these situations, Tom says there's been a dramatic improvement. Before seeking treatment, he was experiencing sexsomnia every two or three months.
"I'm very confident now to be able to say that the events of sexsomnia are very controlled now. And there certainly hasn't been one in the last two or three years."

Jerusalem: New warnings over US shift on city status

Jerusalem: New warnings over US shift on city status
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French President Emmanuel Macron has told Donald Trump he is "concerned" the US leader could unilaterally recognise Jerusalem as Israel's capital.

The Israeli flag flutters in front of the Dome of the Rock mosque and the city of Jerusalem, on December 1, 2017.
Any decision on the contested city's status must be "within the framework of negotiations between Israelis and Palestinians", Mr Macron said.
Earlier, similar warnings came from a number of Arab and Muslim nations.
Reports say the US president will recognise Jerusalem as Israel's capital this week.
Both Israelis and Palestinians claim the city as their capital.
The White House said Mr Trump would miss Monday's deadline to sign a waiver delaying the relocation of the US embassy from Tel Aviv to Jerusalem.
But White House spokesman Hogan Gidley stressed that "the president has been clear on this issue from the get-go: It's not a matter of if, it's a matter of when".
Every president, including Mr Trump, has signed the waiver every six months since US Congress passed an act in 1995 calling for the embassy to be moved.

What's so contentious about the move?

The status of Jerusalem goes to the heart of Israel's conflict with the Palestinians, who are backed by the rest of the Arab and wider Islamic world.
The city is home to key religious sites sacred to Judaism, Islam and Christianity, especially in East Jerusalem.
Israel occupied the area in the 1967 Middle East war and regards the entire city as its indivisible capital.
The Palestinians claim East Jerusalem as the capital of a future state, and according to 1993 Israel-Palestinian peace accords, its final status is meant to be discussed in the latter stages of peace talks.
Israeli sovereignty over Jerusalem has never been recognised internationally, and all countries, including Israel's closest ally the US, maintain their embassies in Tel Aviv.
Since 1967, Israel has built a dozen settlements, home to about 200,000 Jews, in East Jerusalem. These are considered illegal under international law, though Israel disputes this.
If the US recognises Jerusalem as Israel's capital, it will put it out-of-step with the rest of the international community and reinforce Israel's position that settlements in the east are valid Israeli communities.
Map of Jerusalem

What has been the international reaction?

On Monday, Saudi Arabia said such a move before a final settlement in the Israeli-Palestinian conflict would "have a detrimental impact on the peace process".
Palestinian President Mahmoud Abbas has urged world leaders to intervene, saying "such a US decision would destroy the peace process".
Jordan has warned of "grave consequences", while Arab League chief Abul Gheit has said such a move would "nourish fanaticism and violence".
Turkish Deputy PM Bekir Bozdag has said this would be a "major catastrophe".


India doctors fired for mistakenly declaring newborn dead

India doctors fired for mistakenly declaring newborn dead
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A hospital in the Indian capital Delhi has fired two doctors for mistakenly declaring a newborn dead.
The doctors at the privately run Max Hospital had pronounced the baby dead hours after his twin who was stillborn on 30 November.
The parents found that the baby was alive while they were on their way to his funeral.
The incident sparked outrage and a debate over the quality of private healthcare which is often costly.
The privately run Max Hospital said in a statement that "this strict action has been taken on the basis of our initial discussions with experts".
"While the inquiry by the expert group which includes external experts from Indian Medical Association is still in process, we have decided to terminate the services of the two treating doctors," the hospital added.
The government's inquiry into the incident is ongoing.
The incident came to light when the parents noticed one of the babies squirming inside the plastic bag that doctors placed the infants in.
According to the twins' grandfather, the stunned family rushed the newborn to a nearby hospital where they were told that their baby was still alive, local media reported.
This was the second instance in recent months where a private hospital in India has been called out for negligent care. Last month, a girl died of dengue fever in another hospital and the parents allege they were overcharged for her treatment

Thursday, November 30, 2017

North Korea's tight line between deterrent and escalation

North Korea's tight line between deterrent and escalation
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During the Cold War, nuclear strategists frequently asked "how much is enough" to guarantee deterrence and the security of the nation. Planners in Pyongyang may be asking the same question now.
After all, Wednesday's dramatic launch by North Korea of its new Hwasong-15 long-range missile is, in the eyes of some analysts, capable of striking as far afield as Washington or New York.
After six nuclear tests since 2003 and more than 20 missile launches in 2017, could the North have reached a point where its military advances give it a de facto nuclear deterrent credible enough to discourage the US from ever attacking North Korea?
The question is not an academic one.
If Pyongyang feels secure - and the North's leaders have routinely claimed that their nuclear and other Weapons of Mass Destruction (WMD) assets are purely for defensive purposes - then presumably Kim Jong-un can negotiate from a position of strength with the US to secure a relaxation of economic and political sanctions.
Such talks would allow Mr Kim to realise his twin strategic priorities: military modernisation and sustainable economic growth - in the process bolstering his leadership legitimacy in the eyes of his people.

A prelude to further testing

Official North Korean news statements accompanying the missile launch suggest that the latest launch is the culmination of a long-term technological mission - in the words of Kim Jong-un it was "a significant day when the historic cause of completing the state nuclear force, the cause of building a rocket power was realised".
Yet, the test - another confirmation of the North's increasing technical sophistication - is most likely a prelude to further testing.

 Graphic showing Missile range of various tested and untested missiles North Korea has
While the US and its allies worry that the North is inching closer to the date when it can put a nuclear warhead on an intercontinental ballistic missile (ICBM) and deliver it with a measure of accuracy against a US city, the evidence suggests that the North is at least months or possibly a year or two away from reaching this goal.
It will, therefore, need to test similar long-range missiles to refine its strike capacity, including developing the targeting, and heat-resistant, re-entry capabilities needed to guarantee a meaningful deterrent.
Keep in mind that testing military hardware has purposes beyond merely bolstering deterrence. It is a way of showing strength and resisting pressure from one's enemies.
North Korean officials frequently point out the need not to appear weak in the face of external provocation, especially from Pyongyang's historic adversary, the United States.

David and Goliath myth

President Trump's "fire and fury" warning that he may feel compelled to totally destroy" North Korea, his belittling of "rocket man" Kim Jong-un, tighter US and international sanctions, and the latest decision by Trump to re-list North Korea as a state sponsor of terrorism are all evidence in Pyongyang's eyes of hostile intent.
To President Trump, his tough language may appear like a shrewd negotiating tactic, putting pressure on both the North and on China to end the current deadlock, but it is woefully short-sighted and unimaginative not to consider how the actions may be seen from the North's perspective.
One senior North Korean foreign ministry official has characterised Trump as "crazy…a complete thug…just a pathetic guy and a scattermouth".
In this context, and with the North's elaborate propaganda machinery at home mobilised single-mindedly in gearing up its population for a prospective war with the South, there seems very little reason for the North to refrain from further tests.
 North Korean military parade

More tests strengthen resolve at home and demonstrate the country's capacity to stand up to the US.
Pyongyang's narrative of resistance against the US imperialist is a simple, if not simplistic (and at heart disingenuous) re-telling of the David and Goliath myth in which the North is depicted as a plucky and resilient small state standing up to an international bully.
Trump's careless tweets and public bluster only serve to bolster this narrative.

Tipping the balance

For now, there are no signs that the North wishes to engage in substantive dialogue with the US; nor has it shown any willingness to respond to the freeze-for-freeze initiative proposed by both China and Russia in which the North would suspend testing in return for a halt to US-South Korean joint military exercises.
The region can take some, very limited, comfort from signs of partial restraint by Pyongyang. The latest test is the first since 15 September and marks therefore the end of almost two and a half months of relative quiet on the peninsula.
There appears too to be a method and coherence in Kim's approach. He has, so far, refrained from red-line crossing provocations, such as missile launches at Guam or Hawaii.

But how long will this last?
An atmospheric nuclear test remains a possibility, and there are other low level provocations such as a cyber attack on US and South Korean command and control capabilities, or a maritime clash around the Northern Limit Line to the west of the peninsula, that might prompt a proportionate but unambiguously tough US and South Korean counter-action.
This in turn could be misread by the North as the prelude to more substantive military action and heighten the risk of low-level conflict escalating into something much bigger and mutually destructive.
In these situations, as in testing, the question of sufficiency remains paramount.
What one side sees as the minimum to protect its interests and a cautionary warning to its opponent, the other can easily view as a step too far and a deliberate provocation.
Such actions may be enough to tip the balance all too easily away from stability and predictability into uncertainty and escalation with potentially catastrophic consequences.

Wednesday, November 29, 2017

Recovering Lissu relives gun attack nightmare

Recovering Lissu relives gun attack nightmare
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Singida East MP Tundu Lissu has spoken of the last moments when two armed men sprayed his car with a hail of bullets in a failed assassination attempt.
In an interview with UK’s Financial Times, Mr Lissu also blames the failed plot to kill him on what he sees as Tanzania’s slide into a “dictatorship.”
The outspoken MP said in his first interview with the media that he was shot at by two armed men who leapt from a car that had been trailing him for three weeks.
He said a split-second decision by his driver to throw him to the floor perhaps saved his life during the September 7 shooting outside his home in Dodoma.
“All hell broke loose,” says Mr Lissu, chief whip of the Opposition. “I have been told, because I couldn’t count, that 38 bullets hit my car and out of those something like 16 hit me.”
He said in the first interview since the attack that he believes he was the target of an assassination attempt and linked it to an alleged campaign to turn “the country into a dictatorship.” Mr Lissu had before his shooting become one of the most vocal critics of President John Magufuli. He had been in and out of police cells several times.
“He [Magufuli] wants to crush the political parties, crush the press, crush organised civil society and the trade unions, and silence the church,” Mr Lissu told the Financial Times in Kenya, where he is receiving medical treatment. “Every independent centre of power should be made to comply with the demands of the big man,” he told the newspaper.
President Magufuli is on record condemning the attack on Lissu as “barbaric” and directed the police to investigate the incident. No progress has been made in the investigation so far and the government has turned down a request from Chadema to involve independent foreign investigators.
Financial Times quoted government spokesman Hassan Abbasi dismissing Mr Lissu’s assertion as “misplaced.” “If anyone, including Mr Lissu, has any further evidence let him share [it] with investigators,” Mr Abbasi says. “Tanzania is known for its unmatched peaceful and democratic political processes which are conducted according to the laws.”
The newspaper also quoted Kigoma Urban MP Zitto Kabwe on the state of democracy in Tanzania and what Mr Lissu’s attack portend to equally critical minds like him.
“By his own admission [Mr Magufuli] doesn’t believe in multi-party democracy,” Mr Kabwe says. “He sees parties as annoyances, including his own party. He wants to rule with no encumbrances. He prefers to rule in an autocratic way.”
The motive for the attack on Mr Lissu was “to keep us quiet”, Mr Kabwe told Financial Times.
Mr Lissu said he survived the shooting because the bullets missed his torso and “hit me on the backside big time.” He has had 12 operations and is still bed-ridden but can sit up.
“He’s managed to beat us up real bad,” he says, referring to the president’s crackdown on dissent. “The way Magufuli is, his temperament, his personality, his recent actions, he’s turning the country into a dictatorship,” Mr Lissu was quoted as saying

Monday, November 27, 2017

Starving Serengeti Forumus

Starving Serengeti Forumus
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Eventually, they choose a crossing point, and then the eighth wonder of the world unravels.
The concentration of wildlife in one spot, their impulsive bursts of energy and thundering hooves in their trail, culminates in an adrenalin rush as tens of thousands of beasts plunge into the crocodile-infested waters.
It is estimated that about 1.5 million wildebeest, accompanied by large numbers of zebras, Grant’s gazelles, Thomson’s gazelles, elands, and impalas, make an enormous loop every year between the Serengeti in Tanzania and Maasai Mara in Kenya, in search of food.
The event, naturally, has become an icon of the East African safari. Baptised the Eighth Wonder of the World— others call it the World Cup of Wildlife — it bestows Kenya’s and Tanzania’s important tourism industry with significant economic value. Tourists start to camp by the river weeks before the event, anxious to witness the frantic herds and scenes of panic, confusion and triumph.
In the last two financial years leading up to July 2017, according to Kenya Tourism Cabinet Secretary Najib Balala, Nairobi spent Sh2 billion on marketing the Maasai Mara abroad. This figure alone points to the significance of the event to the regional tourism industry.
But of note is how crucial the Mara-Serengeti — or Mamase — ecosystem, stretching 25,000 square kilometers wide, is to the survival of these herbivores. Due to their size and habits, wildebeests shape the ecosystems in which they live and move, making them one of what zoologists consider a “keystone species”. It is also an important ecological phenomenon that provides food to predator populations that include lions, leopards, cheetahs, hyenas, and African wild dogs, among others.
And that explains the trepidation over the threat to this famed ecosystem straddling Kenya and Tanzania with only one year-round river — the Mara — a trans-boundary river shared between Kenya upstream and Tanzania downstream that is formed by the confluence of the Amala and Nyangores rivers. It runs 395 kilometers through the Maasai Mara Game Reserve on the Kenyan side and the Serengeti National Park on the Tanzanian side before spitting its waters into Lake Victoria. Originating in the western side of the Mau Escarpment, River Mara covers an area of 13,750 square kilometres, with the upper 65 per cent (8,941 square kilometres) in Kenya and 35 per cent in Tanzania

Mwanza targets Sh10 trillion GDP contribution with new investment blueprint

Mwanza targets Sh10 trillion GDP contribution with new investment blueprint
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The Mwanza Regional Investment Guide is a brainchild of the region’s authorities in partnership with the United Nations Development Program (UNDP) and the economic and social research foundation (ESRF)

Mwanza. Mwanza has launched its regional investment guide as it puts itself on the right path to grow its contribution to Tanzania’s gross domestic product (GDP) by the year 2025.
The Mwanza Regional Investment Guide is a brainchild of the region’s authorities in partnership with the United Nations Development Program (UNDP) and the economic and social research foundation (ESRF).
It seeks to lead Mwanza on the implementation of development projects in major economic sectors including, agriculture, fishing, mining, manufacturing industries and livestock, according to Regional Commissioner, Mr John Mongella.
Currently, Mwanza contributes about Sh7.4 trillion to Tanzania’s Sh103 trillion GDP. It is second from Dar es Salaam.
“Our goal is to raise Mwanza’s contribution to GDP to Sh10 trillion per annum come the year 2025,” he said.
To achieve the goal, in line with the launched regional investment guide, there shall be established a special team from government institutions which will be trusted with the powers of dealing with investment licenses and certificates so as to cut beauracracy.
“This is not really intended to oversight the current procedures…except we should go away from beaucracy systems which sometimes hinder investment,” Mongella said.
Mr Mongella mentioned the livestock sector, fishing, tourism, mining, agriculture (irrigation) and other social services like education, health and sports as key drivers for Mwanza’s economic growth aspirations going forwards.
“Mwanza is the business hub for member states of the East African Community and we intend to make use of that opportunity to attract more investment and business,” Mongella revealed